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Tuesday, 05 August 2025 17:16

Key Elements of Wellness for Older Adults

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Wellness for older adults goes beyond physical health and prevention of illness. This month, we focus on the habits that support you in feeling your best. During the Golden Years the key elements of wellness include: 

  • Emotional Fulfillment and Social Connection
  • Mental Stimulation 
  • Physical Movement

Let’s take a closer look at each of these; then, check-out our tips to help you create a wellness routine in older adulthood.

  • Emotional Fulfillment and Social Connection

Having opportunities to connect socially is directly related to feeling emotionally fulfilled. These two areas of wellness intersect, and both are vital to older adult well-being. You don’t need to be a socially butterfly, but you do need to have outlets to connect with others as these engagements help combat loneliness, depression, anxiety, and support overall healthy aging

How an older adult defines emotional fulfillment, and the extent of their social connections will vary for each person. At Everbrook Senior Living, we offer programs that support older adults as they explore activities and engagements that creates a sense of purpose and brings more meaning to their lives.

  • Mental Stimulation 

An active mind promotes brain health and protects against cognitive decline. This means your better able to focus, concentrate, recall information, and engage in problem-solving. Now, you don’t have to solve calculus problems as a hobby to keep an active mind! Daily mental stimulation through games, puzzles, art and music, travel, book clubs, volunteering, or nurturing an existing or new hobby are all great ways to support brain health.

  • Physical Movement

Keeping physically active as an older adult is essential for your mobility, balance and coordination, muscle strength and stamina, heart health, and brain health, too! Whether you walk, swim, practice yoga, hike or garden, movement on a daily basis protects against diabetes, heart disease, and cancer. Exercise routines tailored to older adults helps older adults maintain their independent longer, too. 

Never too Late for Wellness in Older Adulthood 

Transitioning from the busy, working adult years into active older adulthood brings about many changes. If you’ve had the benefit of planning ahead for your emotional, mental, and physical wellbeing in older adulthood—good for you! If you haven’t—or if you’re struggling now to find balance in these essential areas of wellness, it’s not too late to get started.

Here are three easy ways to begin:

  1. Prioritize Self-Care. Self-care means putting first the things that matter most to sustain your health and vitality. This includes healthy nourishment, sufficient sleep, adequate water intake, taking medicines as prescribed, tending to preventive health screenings, drinking in moderation, avoiding nicotine, caffeine and processed foods, and making time for family and friends. If you’re struggling to prioritize self-care, consider talking to a health coach who specializes in older adult wellness.
  2. Manage Stress. Yes, managing stress is a part of self-care, but it’s so important to mental and physical health (at every age) that it gets special attention. For older adults, chronic stress can make existing health conditions worse and trigger new health problems. Stress is linked to illnesses such as autoimmune conditions, heart disease, cancer, dementia, and anxiety and depression. One of the best and simplest ways to manage stress is to spend time in nature. Also consider yoga, mindfulness meditation, and learning deep breathing techniques.
  3. Create a Daily Routine. You might need to look at your daily routine to identify where you are wasting energy and time on things that don’t matter and don’t support health. Routines create stability, reduce stress, and even promote happiness. Change is not always easy, but it doesn’t have to be hard. Start small and stay consistent. Consider telling one close friend or family member what you’re wanting to accomplish and ask them to be your accountability partner. You’ll have a greater likelihood of success with social support! 

The communities at Everbrook Senior Living provide every resident with opportunities to participate in physical activities, social engagements, creative outlets, and much more. Our dedicated and compassionate staff will support you in establishing routines that mesh with your unique needs, interests, and goals—in all the key areas of older adult wellness. If you’re curious about what life could have in store for you in the Golden Years... come visit Everbook Senior Living and discover the possibilities for a healthy, active and vibrant life – the life you deserve.

So, what does it mean to have quality of life in your Golden Years? The topic is so important that the month of January is recognized as International Quality of Life Month.

Whether you’re approaching retirement age or helping a parent plan for their Golden Years, an important consideration is how to create and maintain quality of life. Older adult quality of life goes well beyond the size of one’s retirement income. There are plenty of people with substantial retirement accounts who don’t have quality of life. 

Beyond the basics of physical health, comfort, and safety, older adult quality of life encompasses the individual’s needs, interests, and goals so they can experience wellness and happiness, day-to-day. At the core of quality of life for older adults are social-emotional factors that empower them to maintain their dignity, independence, and social connection and which create opportunities for a fulfilling life.

Tips to Create & Enhance Quality of Life in Older Adulthood 

The habits and attitudes that you adopt during older adulthood can keep the mind “youthful” and contribute to feeling more energetic, motivated, and connected in life. It’s never too late to take action to create and enhance your quality of life.

1. Keep Your Mind Sharp

A mind kept active by learning, reading, exploring, and meditating pays big dividends! Keeping your mind sharp offers protection against dementia-related decline, improves memory and reaction time, and supports independent living. Here some ways to challenge your brain:

  • Solve puzzles: jigsaw, word search, crossword, sudoku
  • Learn sign language
  • Learn a new craft 
  • Learn a new skill including new technologies
  • Keep a diary
  • Play games—board games and digital games both have benefits
  • Do an 'Escape Room' with friends—2 benefits: brain challenge and social connection!
  • Exercise—it’s good for your brain! 

2. Don’t Be a Loner

As we get older, our social circles change—children grow-up and create lives of their own, so ours don’t revolve around their needs anymore. Work relationships change after retirement and casual get-togethers tend to dwindle. Social isolation and lonliness is a significant national health concern, particularly for older adults. Don’t fret! There are so many ways to maintain/create social ties and build community in the Golden Years. Try these:

  • Join the Y, JCC, Senior Center, or a special interest club (art, photography, book club)
  • Inquire at a local public library about online or in-person groups for seniors
  • Volunteer – older adults make great readers to young kids, literacy coaches, and helpers at soup kitchens, or with programs like Habitat for Humanity. 
  • Schedule a weekly date with one or more friends—and keep it!

3. Get a Move On!

Physical activity is essential for mental and physical health. It also supports healthy social connections. Regular physical activity helps an older adult maintain mobility, balance, strength, and heart and lung health. You don’t have to move like Jagger, but you do need to move, even if it is from a chair. Try these activities to do your body and mind good: 

  • Chair (or mat) yoga
  • Country line dancing or other dance class
  • Swimming or water aerobics
  • Walking with a friend
  • Gardening

4. Bridge the Generational Gap

Keeping in touch with the younger folks in your family or community can be challenging. They’re busy living lives of their own and as we age we tend to put the onus of maintaining connections of the young person. Don’t wait for them to reach out—call, text, write a letter and don’t give up. Do, of course, let them know that when their lack of response bothers you and express how you feel Be proactive—suggest plans, invite them over, or schedule regular video chats to share what is going in your lives. 

5. Practice Relaxation

Establishing a routine relaxation practice helps to reduce stress, improves brain function, reduces muscle tension, and supports a healthy immune system. Some of the best ways to practice relaxation include: sitting (or lying) meditation, yoga, visualization, deep breathing, listening to soothing music, journaling, and spending time in nature. All have similar and their own unique benefits for mind and body health and to promote overall wellbeing.

  • Set aside 10-15 minutes each day to practice
  • Keep a journal of your state of mind before and after your practice 
  • Try a meditation app to help you begin and progress

There are many other factors that contribute to older adult quality of life, some of which you can learn more about on our blog, including:

  • quality sleep for older adults
  • nutrition for wellness and brain health
  • hobbies and volunteerism
  • setting intentions
  • maintaining intimacy and social connection

Redefine Purpose, Passion, and Leisure at Everbrook Senior Living 

Engaging in hobbies and leisure activities is vital to quality of life in the Golden Years. The activities we’ve discussed offer a sense of purpose and fulfillment, both of which support healthy, independent living for older adults. Really, though, it’s just the tip of the proverbial iceberg as there are as many ways to create meaning and quality of life in older adulthood. 

At Everbrook Senior Living, our best-in-class programs and services are focused on the unique interests and needs of every resident. We design custom programs to help our residents explore meaning and redefine purpose and passion for themselves. 

Whether it’s gardening, painting, a club focused around movies, books, or the NFL, or any other activity, we offer a multitude of options for creativity and self-expression and social interaction.

We create environments and provide care that addresses and nurtures an older adult’s physical, emotional and social well-being. A holistic approach is crucial in truly enhancing the quality of life for the elderly. Everbrook's caring and professional staff considers every aspect of an older adult quality of life. We wouldn’t want any less for our own family members and you should expect no less for you and yours.

Monday, 04 November 2024 12:50

The Healing Power of Music for Older Adults

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From youth through older adulthood, we’ve all experienced the power of music in our lives. Whether it’s a moving instrumental piece or a swift beat with diverse vocal range, music has the power to shift your mood, inspire creativity, enhance concentration, evoke memories, and make mundane tasks more enjoyable.

The influence of music on health and behavior, particularly among older adults, is a topic of growing research interest. A specific set of 10th Century musical frequencies, known as the Solfeggio Frequencies, lay the foundation for modern interest in music and health.

In this article you’ll learn more about:

  • the effects music can have on an older adult’s physical and emotional wellbeing
  • what the Solfeggio Frequencies have to do with music and health, and 
  • tips for bringing the health benefits of music into an older adult’s life

Health Benefits of Music for Older Adults

According to the National Poll on Healthy Aging (2024), more than 50% of adults age 50-80 listen to music daily and 98% stated they feel music provides health benefit. In particular, the older adults also indicated that listening to music reduces stress and tension and helps them relax. Since stress plays a crucial role in many disease processes, the ability of music to reduce a person’s experience of stress is important to wellbeing. Participants also reported that music: 

  • positively affects an older adult’s mood, attitude or mental health
  • motivates or “energizes”
  • keeps the mind sharp, improves mental focus
  • brings joy
  • creates connection with others (reduces social isolation)
  • reduces pain
  • evokes memories & recall of life events

Even though these findings are subjective—meaning they are a compilation of data as reported by the participants, the results align with findings from well-designed studies on music and health. A variety of studies show that music has effects on: 

  • psychological state (mood, emotion, anxiety, depression, agitation, etc.) 
  • physical health (heart rate, blood pressure, breathing, balance, coordination)
  • brain function (brain waves, learning, memory, concentration)
  • activity in the nervous system (states of physical and mental tension/relaxation)
  • immune system response (healing from illness, recovery from surgery)
  • endocrine system function (hormone balance)

Overall, the research points to music as a valuable intervention to support older adult health and wellbeing. Some studies even indicate music as a useful therapeutic intervention for people who are experiencing dementia or Alzheimer’s disease as well as other conditions that affect learning and memory. 

So, what do the ancient Solfeggio Frequencies have to do with music and older adult health?

What are the Solfeggio Frequencies?

The effects of music on health and behavior fascinated the ancient Greeks and the great thinkers of other early civilization. The earliest effects of music on states of wellbeing were observed using a specific six-tone scale, a.k.a., the Solfeggio Frequencies.

The Solfeggio Frequencies are most commonly associated with Gregorian Chants, a form of spiritual music common to early Christianity and ancient Sanskrit chants. The intention was to use sound to evoke a trance like state to facilitate deep spiritual insight or meditation. Over the millennia, the scale has been incorporated into all types of modern instrumental and vocal music. Think of your own everyday experiences of listening to music through film, radio, live performance and how the tones and scales evoke feelings and allow us to form a connection between the music and oftentimes, other things happening in our life at the time. This unique feature of music, as intriguing as it is, is not the reason why the Solfeggio Frequencies matter to health.

The Solfeggio Frequencies Importance in Health & Behavior 

The Solfeggio’s six scales were claimed to be associated with specific healing attributes:

  • First Note, 396 Hz - release feelings of guilt and fear.
  • Second Note, 417 Hz - facilitate change in life; release the conscious and subconscious mind from traumatic past experiences.
  • Third Note, 528 Hz - bring about profound physical transformation. 
  • Fourth Note, 639 Hz - improve our connection and relationships with the people in our lives, ex.: healing strained relationships and forming new ones.
  • Fifth Note, 741 Hz - help us communicate and share our gifts more fully.
  • Sixth Note, 852 Hz - facilitate a return to spiritual tranquility.

When the modern 12-note scale was introduced, only a subset of spiritual practitioners retained the tradition of Gregorian Chants; the Solfeggio was nearly lost to history. Around the 20th Century, a resurgence in Gregorian Chanting brought about interest in the healing effects of music and scientific inquiry into music tuned to the Solfeggio. This led to the scientific and medical research of today, as well as the use of music therapy in clinical settings and in older adult wellness programming.

It's easy for older adults (or their caregivers) to bring the healing power of music into their lives to promote health and wellbeing. Here are a few ideas:

  • Join a music listening group with a friend or loved one. Many support groups (e.g., for dementia, chronic disease, cancer and cancer survivors) have resources for choirs, instrumental groups, and music listening groups.
  • If you have a religious tradition, consider attending a religious service to sing spiritual hymns and songs.
  • Play music at various times of day to stimulate positive atmosphere and shift mood

For someone living with disorders of memory, consider these approaches:

  • Choose music from the era when they were a teenager.
  • Encourage an older adult who previously played an instrument to try it again.
  • Attend a local concert or watch a filmed concert
  • Sing, dance and move to music 
  • Play soothing music, Gregorian Chants or sound therapy music to help with transitions from activity to rest (naptime, bedtime)

If you aren’t sure where to begin with music for health, inquire with a holistic practitioner for a referral to a music therapist or a sound healer. Or contact one of the following organizations to find a practitioner in your area:

International Sound Therapy Association  https://ISTASounds.org 

The Association of Sound Therapy https://harmonicsounds.com/association-of-sound-therapy

Sound Healers Association https://www.soundhealersassociation.org 

American Music Therapy Association https://www.musictherapy.org 

World Federation of Music Therapy  https://wfmt.info 

Resources

Chandra, ML. & Levitin, DJ., “The Neurochemistry of Music.” Trends in Cognitive Sciences, (April 2013) 17:4. Accessed 4 May 2017: https://daniellevitin.com/levitinlab/articles/2013-TICS_1180.pdf 

APA.org “Science Watch: Music as Medicine.” Posted by Amy Novotney; (Nov 2013 44:10). Accessed on 4 May 2017:

Sloboda, J.A. and O’Neill, S.A. “Emotions in everyday listening to music.” In Music and Emotion: Theory and Research (Juslin, P.N. and Sloboda, J.A., eds) (2001)  pp. 415–429, Oxford University Press. Accessed 4 May 2017 

 

Thursday, 05 September 2024 13:02

Aging Wise and Well into Your 50s and Beyond

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Ah… the big 5-0! Whether you’re just celebrating the “half century” milestone, or you’ve been in your 50s for a while, you’ve probably noticed the subtle signs of aging in the way you move, how you handle stress, and your energy level. Fear Not!

You can continue to age wise and well by following our tips for aging into your fifties—giving additional longevity to your mind-body vitality. 

How Your Body Changes During Your 50s

The aging process actually begins in earnest shortly after age 30. At this point, age-related changes tend to be slow and subtle, but become definitively noticeable by the time you enter your forties. 

For both men and women, the body loses physical and emotional resilience as they age. Once you get to age 50, there are several noticeable changes such as:

  • Lower energy level
  • Tiring more easily 
  • Longer time to recover from illness
  • Decrease in muscle strength, agility & flexibility
  • Joint stiffness, back pain
  • Changes in fat-to-muscle ratio 
  • Wrinkles are more noticeable
  • Thinning hair
  • Increased sensitivity to noise
  • Changes in sex drive or function
  • Menopause for women
  • Increased forgetfulness
  • Decreased emotional resilience

Some of these changes will be due to hormonal fluctuations, such as the loss of estrogen during menopause for women, and dropping testosterone levels for both men and women. 

Really, why do we age?

New research points to inflammageing as significant underlying cause for the aging process. The theory goes something like this:

Age-related changes happen due to inflammatory responses that occur in in the body over time. These changes have effects on all the major physiological systems: immune, nervous, cardiovascular, musculoskeletal, and endocrine. Essentially, everything from the brain and nerves to muscle and bone, heart, lungs, and metabolism go into decline. 

What’s that mean, exactly?

You start to feel less resilient to the stresses of life, the environment, illness, and so on. This “inflammageing” process looks different for each person based on factors such as:

  • Genetics – some people age slower, others fast
  • Personal health history – how well have you taken care of yourself over the years?
  • Illness history – have you had many health problems?
  • Lifestyle – do you take the time to take care of your mind, body and spirit? Diet, how much you drink/smoke, exercise, etc.

How to Age Well in Your Fifties

Here are our 5 essential tips to support optimal health and youthful vitality in your fifties:

Tip #1: Stay Up to Date on Health Screenings. Be sure to see your healthcare provider for the appropriate age-specific health screenings. For example, if you’ve been a smoker, then a lung cancer screening may be essential. And, if you do still smoke, try to quit—it’s never too late! You likely also need to have routine screenings for breast cancer, prostate cancer, colonoscopy, among others. 

Tip #2: Stay Mentally Fit. Mental stimulation is essential to protecting the brain from age-related decline and dementia. Stay mentally engaged by learning a new skill or teaching someone a skill you are good at. Put you mind to work on a daily puzzle or crossword. 

Tip #3: Prioritize Sleep. If you don’t have a sleep routine, it’s not too late to create one. Quality sleep isn’t just about how many hours you're asleep; it’s the quality of those hours. A sleep routine includes a routine such as a warm bath or skincare ritual before bed, darkening the room and keeping the temperature cool, and turning-in and waking at consistent times each day. Remember to unplug from digital devices within 2 hours of bedtime. 

Tip #4: Eat Fresh, Whole Foods. A “rainbow on your plate” is a great way to think of healthy eating. Be sure your diet is full of a variety of fruits, veggies, lean protein, and unprocessed grains. Limit eating foods from a box or bag as this will reduce your intake of sodium, sugar, and trans-fats. Hydration is important, especially for older adults. Be sure to drink more water, less soda and alcoholic beverages to support optimal health in your fifties.

Bonus Nutrition Tip: Aging bodies don’t always absorb nutrients as well as when we were younger. And sometimes, as we age, we don’t or eat a balanced-enough diet to provide essential nutrients that aging cells need. You may want to consult with your doctor about nutritional supplements for older adults, including: calcium, magnesium, fiber, vitamin D, vitamin B-6, vitamin B-12, probiotics, and Omega-3 fatty acids. You may also need more protein in your diet. 

Tip #5: Move Your Body.  Daily physical activity helps to protect the heart, lungs, muscles, bones, and joints. Your 50’s is the ideal time to participate in gentle, weight-bearing activities to help slow down bone loss. New to exercise? Follow the physical activity guidelines for older adults, or consult with a certified fitness professional who specializes in older adult exercise and wellness. 

Tip #6: Connect with Others. Social connections are crucial to mental health at every age, and even more so in the older adult years. Connecting with others reduces loneliness, which the US Surgeon General has stated is as deadly as smoking! Look for ways to engage with people of all ages and in different settings. If your family and friend circle is small, consider volunteering in your community or joining a book or board game club at your local library or bookstore.

At Everbrook Senior Living, we view the fifties as a time to focus on you! After years of attending to family, a career, and community obligations, we support your health and wellness journey through state-of-the-art residential and wellness amenities. We offer programs, clubs, classes, and outings that help you preserve and enhance your physical and emotional well-being. Contact us today and come see for yourself what aging wise and well looks like at Everbrook! 

Do you feel like you are having to keep tabs on your aging parent? Are you second guessing if mom or dad should still be living on their own and may need more supervised care? There are several hidden warning signs that can be indicators an aging parent needs assisted living care.

  • Forgetfulness 
  • House is a Mess
  • Changes in Mobility
  • Poor Personal Hygiene 
  • Not Engaging in Day-to-Day Activities

When observing your older adult parent in their living space, you’ll want to keep tabs on the following warning signs to assess whether or not they can continue to independently care for themselves and their home. You may want to keep a notebook, so you can see patterns of behavior and can share this information with your parent and their physician. This information will be helpful for decision making and for engaging with assisted living counselors when you start evaluating residential options for your parent.

When you are making notes about these changes in your aging parent, you’ll also want to observer how they respond to the changes themselves and how they respond to you when you try to discuss these things with them: 

  • Does it frustrate them? Is the frustration at an acceptable level? 
  • Can they problem-solve to find a healthy, reasonable work-a-round to the change? 
  • Do they get anxious, unnecessarily aggravated or belligerent? 
  • Do they brush it off, even though they changing their behavior as a result and this is affecting their usual quality of life? 

1. Forgetfulness. It may not seem like a “hidden warning” because forgetfulness in older adults is something we typically think of as really obvious. Before forgetfulness gets to the problematic point, it progresses, for most people, at a slow pace. You’ll want to look for consistent, insidious patterns of forgetfulness. This is more than just occasionally misplacing the car keys—something all of us do from time-to-time. When the car keys (or anything else) go missing more than occasionally, and to the point where the keys can’t be found so your parent can’t drive the car, that’s the kind of progression that’s a sign something more serious is going on with memory. 

A red-hot warning sign for forgetfulness, which can have tragic outcomes is your aging parent forgetting to take their medication. Be sure that you are keeping tabs on their dosing—that they aren’t taking too much or too little (or none at all), which could result in a medical emergency situation. Other significant warning signs for forgetfulness include: not remembering where they placed important documents, forgetting to cash checks received, to pay bills electronically or by mail, or placing perishable foods in a cabinet instead of the fridge.

2. House is a Mess. If your parent wasn’t a messy person most of their life, and their living space starts to look in disarray, that could be cause for concern. Take notice of:

  • the condition of floors, carpets, counters (they stopped vacuuming or dusting) 
  • piles of dirty dishes in the kitchen
  • the cleanliness of the fridge – is there spoiled food in fridge?
  • trash piles inside / outside the home
  • evidence of hording
  • evidence of insects or rodents
  • grass has not been cut/front porch swept
  • if they own pets: are the pets toileting in the home?

These things could be signs of forgetfulness and/or changes in mobility, meaning your parent is no longer able to do these things and is ashamed to tell you.

3. Changes in Mobility. The obvious signs are frequent falls and similar mishaps with movement. Before that degree of change, you’ll want to look for these hidden warning signs in your aging parent’s mobility:

  • Do they hold onto furniture to move about a room?
  • Have trouble standing from a sitting position? Rising from their bed?
  • Do they have difficulty navigating even a few steps or the curb?
  • Are they avoiding going up or down stairs even though that’s the only way to access a bedroom or bathroom? (In which case—are they washing themselves at the kitchen sink or sleeping on the couch?)

4. Poor Personal Hygiene. If an aging parent suddenly looks unkept, has body odor, or seems to be wearing the same clothes over again, these are subtle signs they are losing the ability to independently care for themself. So pay attention to these things each time you visit:

  • Are they brushing their teeth?
  • Are they doing laundry (can they access the laundry room?)
  • Are the closets/drawers for clothes organized or in disarray?
  • Do they have soap, deodorant, and other personal hygiene products or are they forgetting to buy these things?
  • If they usually wore make-up, have the stopped or are they applying it wrong?

5. Not Engaging in Activities. If your aging parent has discontinued participation in their usual hobbies, social outings with friends, or routine shopping... and this is not due to an acute illness or minor physical set-back, be concerned. You’ll want to talk 

Is it Time for Your Aging Parent to Move to Assisted Living?

If you find that your aging parent displays any of these hidden warning signs of not being able to care for themselves and their living space, then it may be time to consider assisted living. This is especially important to do if you are unable to take-on the challenge of caregiving for your parent. Everbrook Senior Living offers support from compassionate care counselors who can in help you decide about assisted living care that meets your parent’s unique needs. We provide the resources and options necessary for making an informed and affordable choice. Not only do our state-of-the-art, luxury residences provide medical attention your loved one may made need, they will also have access to a full complement of recreational, social, emotional, and cultural activities to support their well-being in their Golden Years.

We’ve covered a great variety of health topics on our blog—most of which focus on encouraging older adults toward an active lifestyle to support their social, physical, and emotional wellbeing. This month, in recognition of National Men’s Health Month, we want to focus on a topic important to men’s emotional and mental health: depression in men. To be clear, depression is not a part of the normal aging process. Depression in older adult men can be overlooked when other health conditions are present, such as dementia. This makes it all the more important to understand and be able to recognize depression in older adult men.

The experience of depression can be quite different for men compared to women. It’s important for loved ones to be able to understand a man’s unique experience of depression so they can best provide support for coping with this serious mental health condition. 

Who Suffers from Depression?

Of all the mood disorders, depression is the most common, afflicting over 21 million Americans from all ethnic groups, ages, and backgrounds each year. Annually, over six million men suffer from depression. In general, men (compared to women) have been less open about reporting symptoms of depression to a healthcare provider. In recent years, thanks to high profile stories of men speaking openly about their mental health and a movement to de-stigmatize conditions like depression, men have been more forthcoming about their struggles with depression.  

There are still generational differences around mental health, including depression. Some older adult men may not be willing to admit to feeling depressed—they may look for a “logical reason” for what they are feeling, and become despondent and/or angry when they can’t pinpoint that reason to explain their depressed mood. 

A Man’s Experience of Depression

Ups and downs in mood are a natural part of being human. Hour to hour, day to day, our emotions can shift based on events in our lives and our perceptions of these events. Clinical depression in men reflects a disturbance in mood and emotion over a period of time, interfering with a person’s usual daily routine and their ability to derive enjoyment from living as they usually do.

If you are concerned that a man in your life may be struggling with depression, ask yourself if there is evidence of the following signs/symptoms:

  • Uncontrolled anger or violent behavior that is uncharacteristic of them
  • Increased use of alcohol / tobacco 
  • Reckless behavior 
  • Changes in usual eating & sleeping habits that persists for 2+ weeks
  • Frequent complaints of headaches, physical pain, or similar
  • Feeling unrelenting pressure, even when simple requests are made
  • Changes in how they view themselves and their life
  • Decreased desire for social interaction, relationships, and intimacy
  • Not able to experience joy in things that usually hold meaning/interest for them

What Can Trigger Depression in Older Adult Men?

For older adult men, depression can be triggered by situations that create feelings of helplessness, anger or stress, such as: 

  • Overwhelming change in responsibility at work or home, including caretaker duties
  • Retirement, particularly if there isn’t a plan for it
  • Feeling dissatisfied with their accomplishments in life
  • Unanticipated changes in relationships (loss, illness, broken ties)
  • Chronic illness, injury, disability that alters lifestyle & independence
  • Changes in memory / other areas of cognitive function
  • Financial problems

Remember: There isn’t a single cause of depression; sometimes, it can afflict a man for no apparent reason. This is why addressing depression must consider biological (genetic factors), psychological, and social factors as well as things like lifestyle choices, relationships, and coping skills.

What Can Older Adult Men Do to Protect Against Depression?

Men can do many things to help protect against risk of depression. The following healthy living tips are a good start:

Get Cuddly. Hugs, a gentle hand on the back, and other affectionate touch is shown to reduce stress, and lower heart rate and blood pressure. It also increases the hormone oxytocin, which plays a role in our desire for social and romantic bonding. Touch, ideally, is between two people who care for one another’s well being, but older adults can also benefit from cuddling a dog—a live animal or a robotic therapy pet

Stay Social. Older adults need in person social connections to support their emotional wellbeing. People who maintain social ties—over a cup of coffee, lunch, dinner, or a game of cards—have lower risk for depression and other health problems, tend to live longer, and report having happier lives, overall.

Eat a Brain Smart Diet. The food you eat influences the production of brain chemicals (neurotransmitters) that play a role in regulating emotional experience and mood. A brain smart diet includes primarily plant0based whole foods, lean cuts of poultry and fish, and, less frequently beef, as well as a variety of nutrient-rich fruits and vegetables. 

Mood Lifting Movement. There’s a significant link between exercise and positive mood. You don’t need to have a racing heart rate to get the mood boosting effects of exercise. You can benefit from taking a stroll through your neighborhood, dancing in your living room, splashing around in the pool, plating catch, or even doing yoga in a chair. If you can get a partner to join you, even better: You’ll reap the benefits of social connection while engaged in mood lifting movement! 

In older adults, what looks like depression could be another underlying health condition—such as sleep deprivation or dementia. And, some health conditions common to older adults can mask a depressive disorder. If you suspect that you, or a loved one, is experiencing depression, please speak to a healthcare provider right away. 

Resources

Anxiety and Depression Association of America. “Men’s Mental Health” 

Mental Health America. “Depression” 

Murray, M.T. and Pizzorno, J. “Depression.” Cited in Encyclopedia of Natural Medicine (3rd Ed.) 2012. New York, NY: Atria Paperback: Simon & Schuster, Inc.  p. 497-498.

Thursday, 08 February 2024 13:03

Dark Chocolate, a Healthy Heart & Senior Romance

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Older adults can celebrate Valentine’s Day and American Heart Month by treating their senior sweetie to a heart-healthy treat: Dark chocolate

More than just an indulgence, nutrients found in dark chocolate can support cardiovascular health, which is important for aging adults. But not just any ole’ dark chocolate; you want to indulge in dark chocolate with a high cacao content. What’s so special about cacao? Glad you asked! 

Cacao: Raw Chocolate, Food of the Gods!

Considered by ancient Mayan culture to be the ‘food of the gods,’ cacao is cocoa (chocolate) in a raw, less-processed form. Cacao grows from trees called Theobroma cacao, which are native to South America and West Africa where more than half of the world’s cacao comes from. After harvesting, cacao is processed to make various chocolate products. The more cacao is processed, the more nutrients it loses. Less processing not only helps dark chocolate retain nutrient density, less additives are mixed-in, such as added sugars, palm oils, butters, and artificial flavoring.

To derive maximum health benefit from eating dark chocolate (in moderation) choose chocolate that contains 70-85% cacao (60% is the minimum cacao content).

What Makes High Cacao Dark Chocolate Good for You?

Like most plants, cacao contains nutrients and plant compounds (known as polyphenols) that support health. Dark chocolate, that is minimally processed, contains several health-promoting compounds. When cacao-rich dark chocolate is eaten in moderation as part of an otherwise healthy diet for older adults, it is associated with the following heart-healthy benefits:

  • Antioxidants help to protect the health and integrity of cells and tissues by neutralizing free radical molecules in your body. (Free radicals are by-products of oxidative stress that occurs when your body is exposed to toxins.) Antioxidants are also associated with keeping inflammation at bay, which helps protect health and lower risk for chronic disease.
  • Flavonoids/flavonols are plant compounds that promote heart health by fighting free radicals, supporting blood flow, and lowering blood pressure. In regard to cholesterol, some studies of overweight and obese persons show that dark chocolate reduces LDL particles in the blood vessels; LDL cholesterol is what clogs arteries and leads to heart disease.
  • Magnesium, Potassium, and Zinc are minerals that support muscle tissue, heart function, and immunity. 1

Dark Chocolate as Part of an Older Adult’s Healthy Diet

Knowing that dark chocolate can support heart health isn’t a free pass to eat bars of it every day. When nutritionists and healthcare providers suggest eating dark chocolate, they are talking about an ounce or two a couple of times a week. They also intend for you to reduce your intake of overprocessed sweets and snacks and replace those with cacao-rich dark chocolate. In a nutshell, dark chocolate should a part of an older adult’s healthy diet inclusive of veggies, fruits, lean meats, poultry, and plenty of water.

Check out these 12 healthy versions of dark chocoalte recipes – our favorite: The Dark Chocolate Fondue.

This Valentine’s Day, surprise your sweetie by making cacao-rich dark chocolate fondue and sharing dipped fruit together. Remember to use chocolate ingredients that is 60% or higher in cacao content. 

Fun Flavor Fact: Raw cacao has a unique flavor profile! Depending on the cacao content, dark chocolate can be slightly to very bitter compared to its more processed chocolate cousin. This is why many high-cacao dark chocolate products are infused with other nutrient-dense ingredients, such as dried fruit (raspberry, acai berry, blueberry) or fruit extract (orange, berry) or nuts (walnut, cashew). These ingredients cut the bitterness and enhance the sweet, tangy flavor profile of dark chocolate.

Free from the obligations of work and raising a family, older adulthood can be a time to celebrate independence. Let’s explore essential tips to help you (or a loved one) maintain—and celebrate independence in older adulthood.

For some people, the ‘golden years’ present the opportunity to take life at as fast or slow of a pace as one desires. It can be a time to explore hobbies, travel to exciting destinations, rekindle or create new friendships, and spend quality time with beloved family. Maintaining independence throughout older adulthood does take some focus and effort, if one is to stay physically able-bodied and mentally sharp.

Tips for Supporting Older Adult Independence

Stay Socially Connected

Preventing social isolation is crucial for older adults’ physical and emotional wellbeing. As we get older, our social ties can decline because of changes to our health, relocation, and death. It’s important to keep renewing our social connections, which can protect our social emotional health, particularly from depression, anxiety, and memory-loss related conditions such as dementia. Social connections for older adults are kept strong through mutually rewarding activities and interests such as:

  • senior center programs (clubs, movie nights, field trips)
  • hobbies (golf, swimming, book club, chess club, knitting, etc)
  • volunteer work
  • frequent visits to and from family, friends, or former colleagues

Living in a senior living community, such as Everbrook Senior Living, makes it simple for older adults to stay young-at-heart. These communities often provide on-site wellness programs, trips, dining clubs, and maintenance-free living so you have the time to enjoy your free time.

The Game is Afoot!

Games are a wonderful way for older adults to keep the mind sharp, connect with others, and have fun with a significant other, grandkids/ family, old friend, or to make new friends. Board games or card game clubs can be found through your local library, senior center, YMCA, or JCC. Such clubs are also present at most senior living communities, and often are peer-led by residents of the community, making it easy to make new friends. Check out these crafts and games designed to celebrate senior independence on Independence Day.

Stay in Motion

Exercising in older adulthood helps to maintain physical strength, stamina, coordination, emotional wellbeing, and mental sharpness. When you feel strong and capable, that supports independence. If you were an athlete earlier in life, you may very well be able to maintain vigorous activity during older adulthood. For other folks, being physically active in older adulthood means changing the intensity or type of activity—if your knees aren’t up for running, switch to power walking or swimming, for example. There are so many types of exercise routines that can be modified for an older adult’s needs, from weight training to yoga. Just check with your doctor before starting an exercise program or switching to a new activity. 

Elegance and Independence at Everbrook Senior Living

When you reside at an Everbrook Senior Living community, you’ll have access to the Wellnes 4 Later Life Program, which addresses all of your physical, social, and emotional needs. You’ll work with an on-site exercise physiologist and have access to physicians to assess and monitor your health. At Everbrook, you can live among like-minded peers, experience new adventures, and enjoy the simple luxuries of active, independent living in your golden years. 

Give us a call today to learn more about all that we have to offer.

Tuesday, 07 February 2023 13:29

Healthy Intimate Relationships in Older Adulthood

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Need for intimacy does not diminish as we grow older. Whether romantic or platonic, maintaining close relationships helps older adults experience greater vitality, a sense of belonging, and deeper meaning in life. There are also many health benefits that come with maintaining healthy intimacy during one’s golden years.

Benefits of Intimate Relationships for Older Adults

  • Lower stress, greater resilience
  • Better recovery following surgery
  • Protection against depression and anxiety
  • Lower resting blood pressure
  • Enhanced feelings of self-worth and meaning
  • Overall better health (e.g., less frequent illness)
  • Longer lifespan

Ways Older Adults Can Enhance Intimate Relationships

Whether it’s the closeness between two friends or sparking romance, there are some very simple ways to older adults can enhance their intimate relationships.

Everyday Moments Matter. Physical touch in small, mindful doses throughout the day is an easy way to let someone know of your affection for them. From a spontaneous backrub or foot rub to a gentle touch on the hand or shoulder, these signal to the other person that they are important to you. 

Laugh Together. This is a good excuse to go to a funny movie or a comedy club: Laughing eases stress, promotes social bonding, and lowers blood pressure. It may even boost your immune system. Whether with your romantic partner or a special friend, think of ways that the two of you can laugh together more often.

Share More Deeply. Conversation with your significant person is a great way to build intimacy. However, discussion should be about more than the weather or the latest tragic story of the day. Sharing more deeply means opening up your heart, revealing feelings and disclosing hopes, fears, or dreams. 

Switch-up Your Routine. By the time we reach older adulthood, we can be pretty set in our ways and routines. To create intimacy, get adventurous by switching-up your routines. This could be as easy as trying a new restaurant, working on a project/ hobby or taking a class together, or planning travel to destinations more exotic than you would typically consider.

It’s Thoughtfulness That Counts. We can get so accustomed to a platonic or romantic partnership that we forget to show appreciation for the other person by simply doing something nice for the other person. Enhancing intimacy can be as easy as offering a compliment, buying a small bouquet of flowers, helping with chores that are typically “the other person’s job”, or cooking a meal for the other person.

Unplug. Just like younger generations, older adults can get sucked into the digital world. Socializing on fine and developing new technology skills are great, but technology should not replace or interfere with personal interaction. Unplug and be fully present, in person.

Get a Little Sexy. Sexual intimacy in older adulthood can boost self-esteem, help reduce stress, enhance immunity, improve sleep, and help you maintain overall good health. If you’ve still got mojo to share (and who doesn’t) then get a little sexy! This might mean buying tasteful intimate attire for your partner, sharing a bed rather than sleeping apart (as many older couples resort to), exploring different ways to experience touch (e.g., massage), or if needed, working with a therapist who specializes in intimacy in older adulthood.

Healthy physical and emotional connection in older adulthood enhances intimate relationships. It’s good for your physical and emotional health and can strengthen friendships or spice-up romantic relationships.

At Everbrook Senior Living, the Life-Enrichment Activities Program is just one of the many offerings that focus on helping our residents establish and maintain meaningful relationships throughout the golden years. To learn more about our programs and arrangements for independent or assisted living, get in touch with us, today.

Resources

National Institutes of Health: Sexuality in Older Adulthood

Why is Intimacy Important for Older Adults? National Council on Aging

As we get older, particularly into our 50’s and 60’s, cataracts can become a common eye condition experienced by both men and women. Cataracts are a leading cause of vision loss in the United States, so it’s important to know how to protect your eyes to reduce your risk for cataract and to be able to recognize the signs of a developing cataract. 

Cataract Formation

Like the rest of the body, the eyes and the structures that support the visual system undergo significant change as we age. One of the structures that undergoes the most change is the lens in the eye. The lens of the eye is located behind the pupil and the colored iris. The lens helps to focus images onto the retina, which then transmits the images to the brain. Normally the lens is “crystal clear.” 

Aging, and other medical conditions can cause the lens to become cloudy and yellow. This can cause mildly blurry vision, resulting in changes in your eyesight. If the crystalline lens loses significant transparency and clarity, then a cataract has formed. A cataract is the clouding of the eye’s lens, causing blocks or changes in the passage of light into the eye. 

Vision Changes Due to Development of Cataracts

If you have cataracts, you may notice changes in your vision, such as:

  • Difficulty seeing in dim illumination
  • Difficulty with night driving
  • Colors appear faded or dull
  • Experiencing glare, haloes, or light sensitivity 
  • Diminished vision

The only way to treat cataracts is to remove them surgically. The longer cataracts are left untreated, the more difficult it can be to successfully remove the cataract and restore vision.  

Cataracts can affect you even if you’ve had normal vision and relatively healthy eyes throughout your life. This is because, for most people, cataract development is a part of the normal aging process. 

Risk Factors for Developing Cataracts

Certain health and lifestyle conditions and use of certain medications can increase your risk for developing cataracts, such as:

  • diabetes 
  • trauma to the eye
  • chronic inflammation of the eye
  • other eye disease
  • repeated sun exposure without using UV protective eyewear (on cloudy days also)
  • long-term use of steroids, cortisone (including for asthma)
  • other chronic inflammatory medical conditions
  • smoking
  • genetics, family history

Preserving Eye Health, Reducing Risk for Cataracts

Early detection and treatment of cataracts is critical to preserving your vision. Even though cataract formation may be an inevitable part of the aging process for many of us, there are things you can do to preserve eye health and reduce your risk for cataracts having a significant negative impact on your quality of life. 

Move that Body. Moving your body enough to elevate your heart rate for 30 minutes each day is not just good for your heart, lungs, joints, and muscles—it’s good for your eyes. Whatever you enjoy for movement, do it. Exercise, such as walking, swimming, yoga, tai chi, weight training, hiking, increases circulation, carrying oxygen-rich blood and nutrients to all the vital organs, including the eyes.

Get More Greens. Dark, leafy green vegetables contain antioxidants, vitamins A and C, and minerals that support the health of the eyes (and the whole body!). Increase your intake of broccoli, collards, spinach, dark leaf lettuces, sprouts, etc. to obtain these nutrients.

Be Cool, Wear Shades. UV-protective eyewear is essential year-round. In the summer, the days are longer, and sun exposure increases as we spend more time outdoors. In winter, the sun is lower in the sky and often can feel like it’s “at eye level” with us while we drive or are outdoors. Just because it is colder outside, does not diminish the impact of UV light on our eyes. If you boat or engage in winter sports, the glare of the sun off the water and the snow increases the damaging effects of UV rays. So…no matter the season, you’ve got to wear shades!

If you are concerned about changes in your vision, or experiencing any of the symptoms listed, it may be time to adopt healthier habits, make changes in your vision care plan, or consult with an ophthalmologist. The health and wellness team at each of the Everbrook Senior Living communities are here to support and guide you.

Resources

American Academy of Ophthalmology “What are Cataracts?” https://www.aao.org/eye-health/diseases/what-are-cataracts 

Prevent Blindness https://preventblindness.org/cataract-awareness-june-2022/

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